The comic spirit is given to us in order that we may analyze, weigh, and clarify things in us which nettle us, or which we are outgrowing, or trying to reshape
Many who have spent a lifetime in it can tell us less of love than the child that lost a dog yesterday.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Love can be understood more deeply through personal loss than through years of experience.
This quote by Thornton Wilder emphasizes that a child's raw and immediate experience of love and loss, even if limited in duration, can be more profound and insightful than the accumulated knowledge of adults who have spent a lifetime examining love. It suggests that the purity and intensity of emotions in pure forms of love, such as that between a child and a pet, can reveal truths about love that are often overlooked by those who have grown cynical or distracted by complexity over time.
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Example use cases
In a speech about the importance of grief and understanding emotions, this quote can be cited.
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I want you to try and remember what it was like to have been very young. And particularly the days when you were first in love; when you were like a person sleepwalking, and you didn’t quite see the street you were in, and didn’t quite hear everything that was said to you. You’re just a little bit crazy. Will you remember that, please?
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