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I wonder how many people I've looked at all my life and never seen. It's scary to think about. Point of reference again. When two people meet, each one is changed by the other so you've got two new people.
John Steinbeck
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Interpretation

What this quote means

The quote reflects on the profound effect that encounters between individuals can have on their identities.

John Steinbeck's quote emphasizes the often overlooked impact of human interactions. He suggests that throughout our lives, we may pass by countless individuals without truly seeing or acknowledging them, which is a daunting thought. Moreover, with each meeting, both parties experience a change, highlighting the transformative nature of relationships. The essence of our connections with others shapes who we are and can lead to personal growth and new understandings.

Themes

RelationshipsPerceptionChangeHuman ConnectionGrowth

In practice

Example use cases

This quote could be shared during a discussion about the importance of empathy in relationships.

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