Conflict is the alchemical soup that transforms raw emotion and instinct into pure gold.

- Harville Hendrix

The depth of our love can be measured by our efforts. We demonstrate our love when we take that extra step.

- Harville Hendrix

When we meet an Imago match, that chemical reaction occurs, and love ignites. All other bets, all other ideas about what we want in a mate, are off. …

- Harville Hendrix

Many divorced or widowed people do with their singleness what they should have done before they married for the first time: live alone, find their ow…

- Harville Hendrix

Every therapeutic intervention is an act of social transformation.

- Harville Hendrix

Marriage is not a static state between two unchanging people. Marriage is a psychological and spiritual journey that begins in the ecstasy of attract…

- Harville Hendrix

We always marry someone for the purpose of finishing our childhood.

- Harville Hendrix

Romantic Love delivers us into the passionate arms of someone who will ultimately trigger the same frustrations we had with our parents, but for the …

- Harville Hendrix

Above all else, we seek connection - with parts of ourselves that we have repressed, with other people, and with the larger universe. We cannot exper…

- Harville Hendrix