Go forward with joyful confidence.
George EliotRead
Having once embarked on your marital voyage, it is impossible not to be aware that you make no way and the sea is not within sight; that in fact, you are exploring an enclosed basin.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Marriage can feel stagnant and isolating at times, as if you are adrift in a closed off world.
In this quote, George Eliot reflects on the nature of marriage as a journey that can often feel aimless and enclosed. Once individuals commit to this voyage of partnership, they may find themselves in a situation where their progress is unclear and the broader horizons of life are not visible, highlighting the challenges of navigating intimacy and connection within a confined relationship dynamic.
Themes
MarriageRelationshipsVoyageExplorationCommitment
In practice
Example use cases
During a wedding speech, a person might share this quote to express the challenges and adventures of marital life.
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Our dead are never dead to us until we have forgotten them: they can be injured by us, they can be wounded; they know all our penitence, all our aching sense that their place is empty, all the kisses we bestow on the smallest relic of their presence.
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