The characters I've played, especially Bret Maverick and Jim Rockford, almost never use a gun, and they always try to use their wits instead of their fists.
Marriage is a lot like the army, everyone complains, but you'd be surprise at the large number that re-enlist.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Marriage, like military service, often comes with complaints, yet many choose to commit again.
James Garner's quote highlights the paradox of marriage, comparing it to the army where individuals often express dissatisfaction yet continue to remain committed. It suggests that despite the challenges and complaints that may arise in a marriage, many couples find strength in their bond and are willing to 're-enlist' in the commitment to one another, signifying the depth of love and devotion that can prevail amidst difficulties.
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Example use cases
In a wedding toast, one might say, 'Like the army, marriage has its challenges, but it's amazing how many choose to renew their vows and commitment.'
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