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Marriage is not a love affair. A love affair has to do with immediate personal satisfaction. Marriage is an ordeal; it means yielding, time and again. That's why it's a sacrament; You give up your personal simplicity to participate in a relationship. And when you're giving, you're not giving to the other person; you're giving to the relationship.
Joseph Campbell
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Interpretation

What this quote means

Marriage involves sacrifices and commitment beyond personal satisfaction.

In this quote, Joseph Campbell distinguishes between a fleeting love affair and the enduring commitment of marriage. He emphasizes that marriage is not just about personal satisfaction but involves ongoing sacrifices and yielding for the sake of the relationship, highlighting the deeper, spiritual nature of this bond as a sacrament where one participates in something greater than oneself.

Themes

MarriageSacrificeRelationshipCommitmentLove

In practice

Example use cases

Using this quote during a wedding ceremony to emphasize commitment.

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