Every writing teacher I ever had except for one told me I was an awful writer, had no idea what I was doing, and should stop immediately. It only took the one to tell me something different to light a fire under me.
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A marriage is a private thing. It has its own wild laws, and secret histories, and savage acts, and what passes between married people is incomprehensible to outsiders. We look terrible to you, and severe, and you see our blood flying, but what we carry between us is hard-won, and we made it just as we wished it to be, just the color, just the shape.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Marriage is a complex and intimate bond that is difficult for outsiders to understand.
This quote highlights the unique and intricate nature of marriage, emphasizing that it comprises personal histories, struggles, and triumphs that are not visible to others. It suggests that the experiences shared by married couples are deeply private and often misunderstood, revealing a rich tapestry that outsiders cannot fully appreciate or judge.
Themes
MarriageRelationshipsIntimacyPrivateUnderstanding
In practice
Example use cases
In a wedding speech to emphasize the uniqueness of their bond.
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