Martin is your best friend, isn't he?' a sweet and well-intentioned girl once said when both of us were present: it was the only time I ever felt awkward about this precious idea, which seemed somehow to risk diminishment if it were uttered aloud.
Interpretation
This quote reflects the deep, often unspoken value of friendship and the discomfort that can arise from openly discussing it.
Christopher Hitchens highlights the delicate nature of friendships and how expressing their importance can sometimes feel awkward. The quote suggests that while one may recognize the significance of a friend, vocalizing that bond can lead to vulnerability or the fear of undermining its worth. Friends hold a special place in our lives, and the notion of discussing that bond openly may bring about an unforeseen tension, where the act of labeling it could somehow lessen its value.
In practice
In a speech at a friend's wedding, you might say this quote to highlight the importance of their friendship.
In a public dialogue with Salman in London he [Edward Said] had once described the Palestinian plight as one where his people, expelled and dispossessed by Jewish victors, were in the unique historical position of being 'the victims of the victims': there was something quasi-Christian, I thought, in the apparent humility of that statement.
What can be asserted without evidence can be dismissed without evidence.
Never ask while you are doing it if what you are doing is fun. Don't introduce even your most reliably witty acquaintance as someone who will set the table on a roar.
[E]xceptional claims demand exceptional evidence.
The worst days are when you feel foggy in the head - chemo-brain they call it. It's awful because you feel boring. As well as bored. And stupid. And resigned.
Let me tell you something: for hundreds of thousands of years, this kind of discussion would have been impossible to have, or those like us would have been having it at the risk of our lives. Religion now comes to us in this smiley-face, ingratiating way — because it’s had to give so much more ground and because we know so much more. But you’ve got no right to forget the way it behaved when it was strong, and when it really did believe that it had God on its side.
Between friends differences in taste or opinion are irritating in direct proportion to their triviality.
A friend in power is a friend lost.
People really do like seeing their best friends humiliated; a large part of the friendship is based on humiliation; and that is an old truth,well known to all intelligent people.
Winning friends begins with friendliness.
Men have no more time to understand anything. They buy things all ready made at the shops. But there is no shop anywhere where one can buy friendship, and so men have no friends any more. If you want a friend, tame me.
Under the magnetism of friendship the modest man becomes bold; the shy, confident; the lazy, active; and the impetuous, prudent and peaceful.
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