Books are not life, only its ashes.
The mask, given time, comes to be the face itself
Interpretation
What this quote means
Over time, the persona we adopt can become indistinguishable from our true selves.
This quote by Marguerite Yourcenar reflects on the concept of identity and how the roles or 'masks' we wear in society can eventually become our reality. It suggests that as we live and embody certain behaviors or ways of being, these external identities can completely take over, leading us to lose touch with our authentic selves. The caution here is to recognize the masks we wear and ensure they do not replace our true identity.
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Example use cases
In a discussion about personal growth during a seminar, one might say, 'Remember, as Marguerite Yourcenar said, 'The mask, given time, comes to be the face itself,' reminding us to stay true to ourselves.'
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Our true birthplace is that in which we cast for the first time an intelligent eye on ourselves. My first homelands were my books.
The landscape of my days appears to be composed, like mountainous regions, of varied materials heaped up pell-mell. There I see my nature, itself composite, made up of equal parts of instinct and training. Here and there protrude the granite peaks of the inevitable, but all about is rubble from the landslips of chance.
When two texts, or two assertions, perhaps two ideas, are in contradiction, be ready to reconcile them rather than cancel one by the other; regard them as two different facets, or two successive stages, of the same reality, a reality convincingly human just because it is too complex.
Passion such as hers is all consent, asking little in return. I had merely to enter a room where she was to see her face take on that peaceful expression of one who is resting in bed. If I touched her, I had the impression that all the blood in her veins was turning to honey.
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