Speak the truth, do not yield to anger; give, if thou art asked for little; by these three steps thou wilt go near the gods.
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On matters beyond his ken a gentleman speaks with caution. If names are not right, words are misused. When words are misused, affairs go wrong. When affairs go wrong, courtesy and music droop, law and justice fail. And when law and justice fail them, a people can move neither hand nor foot. So a gentleman must be ready to put names in speech, to put words into deeds. A gentleman is nowise careless of words.
Interpretation
What this quote means
A gentleman uses words with care, as misusing them can lead to significant consequences.
This quote by Confucius emphasizes the importance of words and their correct usage in communicating ideas appropriately. It suggests that a gentleman approaches matters with caution, recognizing that improper language can lead to misunderstandings and failures in justice and social harmony. By valuing the power of words, individuals contribute to a more orderly and respectful society.
Themes
WordsGentlemanCommunicationJusticeCautionLanguage
In practice
Example use cases
This quote can be used in speeches about the importance of communication in leadership.
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