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We may give our human loves the unconditional allegiance which we owe only to God. They they become gods: then they become demons. Then they will destroy us, and also destroy themselves. For natural loves that are allowed to become gods do not remain loves. They are still called so, but can become in fact complicated forms of hatred.
C. S. Lewis
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Interpretation

What this quote means

Unconditional love for humans can lead to destructive outcomes when it is prioritized over divine allegiance.

C. S. Lewis warns against the dangers of allowing our human relationships to take precedence over our devotion to God. When we idolize our loves, they can turn toxic, transforming from sources of joy into entities that can cause pain and suffering, ultimately leading to hatred rather than love.

Themes

LoveIdolatryHuman RelationshipsDestructionDevotion

In practice

Example use cases

In a sermon about the importance of prioritizing spiritual love over earthly attachments.

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