I've never been convinced that experience is linear, circular, or even random. It just is. I try to put it in some kind of order to extract meaning from it, to bring meaning to it.
Toni Cade BambaraRead
(M)aybe we too busy being flowers or fairies or strawberries instead of something honest and worthy of respect . . . you know . . . like being people.
Interpretation
The quote emphasizes the importance of authenticity and being true to oneself rather than adopting superficial roles.
Toni Cade Bambara's quote reflects on the tendency of individuals to embody fanciful or unrealistic personas rather than embracing their genuine humanity. By suggesting that we often get lost in the metaphorical roles of 'flowers,' 'fairies,' or 'strawberries,' she urges us to confront our true selves and the respect that comes with being honest and authentic.
In practice
In a speech about self-acceptance, you might quote this to illustrate the importance of being true to oneself.
I've never been convinced that experience is linear, circular, or even random. It just is. I try to put it in some kind of order to extract meaning from it, to bring meaning to it.
Take away the miseries and you take away some folks' reason for living.
Write a lot and hit the streets. A writer who doesn't keep up with what's out there ain't gonna be out there.
I'll be damned if I want most folks out there to do unto me what they do unto themselves.
The dream is real, my friends. The failure to make it work is the unreality.
Unnecessary possessions are unnecessary burdens. If you have them, you have to take care of them! There is great freedom in simplicity of living. It is those who have enough but not too much who are the happiest.
I would like to believe this is a story Iβm telling. I need to believe it. I must believe it. Those who can believe that such stories are only stories have a better chance. If itβs a story Iβm telling, then I have control over the ending. Then there will be an ending, to the story, and real life will come after it. I can pick up where I left off.
A man with a machine and inadequate culture is a pestilence.
I am not a pessimist but a pejorist (as George Eliot said she was not an optimist but a meliorist); and that philosophy is founded on my observation of the world, not on anything so trivial and irrelevant as personal history.
And what is life? God manifested in the material plane. For it is in Him that we live and move and have our being.
The web of our life is of a mingled yarn, good and ill together: our virtues would be proud if our faults whipped them not; and our crimes would despair if they were not cherished by our own virtues.
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