There's an old saying: 'No piece of writing is ever finished, it's just abandoned.' But my own rule is: No piece of work is done until you want to kill everyone involved in the publishing process, especially yourself.
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What this quote means
The quote highlights the power of belief and expectation in a relationship, suggesting that love can be deepened by believing in someone more than they believe in themselves.
In this quote, Chuck Palahniuk emphasizes the significance of belief and expectation in relationships. It suggests that love is strengthened when one partner sees greater potential in the other than they see in themselves, highlighting the role of encouragement and support in fostering self-esteem and personal growth. The notion that love can be rooted in a shared belief in one's capabilities serves as a reminder of the impact we have on each other's lives.
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In a motivational speech about the power of belief in relationships.
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