I have an impulse to write all over the orange walls- I need an alphabet of endings ripped out of books, of hands pulled off of clocks, of cold stones, of shoes filled with nothing but wind.
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Or maybe a person is just made up of a lot of peopleMaybe we’re accumulating these new selves all the time. Hauling them in as we make choices, good and bad, as we screw up, step up, lose our minds, find our minds, fall apart, fall in love, as we grieve, grow, retreat from the world, dive into the world, as we make things, as we break things.
Interpretation
What this quote means
This quote suggests that a person is a collection of experiences and identities shaped by life choices.
Jandy Nelson's quote reflects on the complexity of human identity, proposing that individuals are not fixed but rather an amalgamation of various selves formed through diverse life experiences. Each choice, emotion, or event adds a layer to our identity, hinting at the fluidity of who we are as we navigate through life’s challenges and transformations.
Themes
IdentityChoicesExperiencesTransformationSelf
In practice
Example use cases
In a motivational speech about personal growth, one might use this quote to highlight the importance of embracing change.
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