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I think the meaning of abortion is what the woman says it is: For a woman who wants a child but can't have this one, it can be sad; for a woman who doesn't want a baby, it can feel like a huge relief, like having your whole life given back to you.
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What this quote means
This quote emphasizes that the meaning of abortion is subjective and depends on the woman's perspective.
Katha Pollitt's quote highlights the deeply personal nature of abortion and how it can evoke different emotions based on a woman's circumstances and desires. For some women, the decision to terminate a pregnancy may bring about feelings of sadness and loss, particularly if they long for a child. In contrast, for others who do not wish to have a baby, it can be a liberating experience, offering a return to a life plan they had envisioned. This quote illustrates the complex emotional landscape surrounding the topic of abortion, stressing that it is the woman's own feelings and situation that ultimately define its meaning for her.
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In a discussion about reproductive rights.
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