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You get to consciously decide what has meaning and what doesn't. You get to decide what to worship.
Interpretation
What this quote means
We have the power to choose what is significant in our lives.
In this quote, David Foster Wallace emphasizes the importance of personal agency in determining what we value in life. He suggests that individuals have the freedom to choose their beliefs and what they give importance to, thereby shaping their own meaning and purpose, whether it be worship, relationships, or pursuits.
Themes
ChoiceMeaningValuesAgencyDecide
In practice
Example use cases
In a motivational speech about personal growth and responsibility.
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