Those who understand only what can be explained understand very little.
Marie Von Ebner-EschenbachRead
In meeting again after a separation, acquaintances ask after our outward life, friends after our inner life.
Interpretation
The quote emphasizes the differences between acquaintances and true friends in how they engage after a period of separation.
Marie Von Ebner-Eschenbach highlights the essential difference in levels of intimacy that exist in relationships. When we reunite with acquaintances, the conversation tends to revolve around superficial aspects of our lives, such as our external circumstances. In contrast, true friends delve deeper, showing genuine concern for our emotional and inner well-being, thus fostering a stronger connection.
In practice
In a speech about maintaining friendships, one might use this quote to illustrate the depth of true friendship.
Those who understand only what can be explained understand very little.
We are so vain that we even care for the opinion of those we don't care for.
Whoever prefers the material comforts of life over intellectual wealth is like the owner of a palace who moves into the servants’ quarters and leaves the sumptuous rooms empty.
Authors from whom others steal should not complain, but rejoice. Where there is no game there are no poachers.
Have patience with the quarrelsomeness of the stupid. It is not easy to comprehend that one does not comprehend.
There is only one proof of ability - action.
We Masons are among the fortunate ones who are taught to meet together with others opposing convictions or competitive ideas and yet respect each other as Brothers.
No human relation gives one possession in another—every two souls are absolutely different. In friendship or in love, the two side by side raise hands together to find what one cannot reach alone.
Talk is by far the most accessible of pleasures. It costs nothing in money, it is all profit, it completes our education, founds and fosters our friendships, and can be enjoyed at any age and in almost any state of health.
Friendship is a serious affection; the most sublime of all affections, because it is founded on principle, and cemented by time.
When friends grow cold, and the converse of intimates languishes into vapid civility and commonplace, these only continue the unaltered countenance of happier days, and cheer us with that true friendship which never deceived hope, nor deserted sorrow.
And when you come back to Japan next summer, let's have that date or whatever you want to call it. We can go to the zoo or the botanical garden or the aquarium, and then we'll have the most politically correct and scrumptious omelets we can find.
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