Because in some men it is in them to give up everything personal at some time, before it ferments and poisons--throw it to some human being or some human idea. They have to.
Interpretation
This quote reflects the idea that some individuals feel compelled to sacrifice personal attachments for a greater purpose or to prevent negative emotions from overwhelming them.
Carson McCullers highlights a profound truth about human nature: there are individuals who possess an innate need to relinquish their personal dilemmas or burdens to either others or to a broader concept. This act of giving up is not merely a choice but a necessity that protects them from the toxic consequences of harboring unresolved feelings. Through this lens, the quote suggests a deeper connection between personal struggles and the human need for empathy, understanding, and shared experiences.
In practice
During a speech on personal growth, one might use this quote to emphasize the importance of sharing burdens.
Wherever you look there’s meanness and corruption. This room, this bottle of grape wine, these fruits in the basket, are all products of profit and loss. A fellow can’t live without giving his passive acceptance to meanness. Somebody wears his tail to a frazzle for every mouthful we eat and every stitch we wear—and nobody seems to know. Everybody is blind, dumb, and blunt-headed—stupid and mean.
There's nothing that makes you so aware of the improvisation of human existence as a song unfinished. Or an old address book.
She was afraid of these things that made her suddenly wonder who she was, and what she was going to be in the world, and why she was standing at that minute, seeing a light, or listening, or staring up into the sky: alone.
The trouble with me is that for a long time I have just been an I person. All people belong to a We except me. Not to belong to a We makes you too lonesome.
Once you have lived with another, it is a great torture to have to live alone.
But no value has been put on human life; it is given to us free and taken without being paid for. What is it worth? If you look around, at times the value may seem to be little or nothing at all. Often after you have sweated and tried and things are not better for you, there comes a feeling deep down in the soul that you are not worth much.
Perhaps it is better to wake up after all, even to suffer, rather than to remain a dupe to illusions all one's life.
We tend to think of philosophies as produced by professional philosophers. Traditionally, this has meant people who have written dissertations on obscure subjects or who spend most of their day in libraries. But every human is, in an important sense, a carrier of an implicit philosophy - evident in their choices, pronouncements and commitments.
Power is not brute force and money; power is in your spirit. Power is in your soul. It is what your ancestors, your old people gave you. Power is in the earth; it is in your relationship to the earth.
For in every adult there dwells the child that was, and in every child there lies the adult that will be.
Power is not sufficient evidence of truth.
Only seven years ago we made a treaty by which we were assured that the buffalo country should be left to us forever. Now they threaten to take that from us also.
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