If you surrender completely to the moments as they pass, you live more richly those moments.
Men kick friendship around like a football, but it doesn't seem to crack. Women treat it like glass and it goes to pieces.
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What this quote means
Friendship is handled differently by men and women, with men being more casual and women being more delicate about it.
In this quote, Anne Morrow Lindbergh observes how men and women approach friendship in contrasting ways. Men often treat friendship with a sense of casualness and playfulness, using it much like a football without fear of damage, while women approach it with more care and sensitivity, akin to handling glass, which can easily shatter under pressure. This illustrates the different ways genders perceive and value their relationships.
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In a speech about friendship dynamics, you might say, 'As Anne Morrow Lindbergh wisely pointed out, men kick friendship around like a football, while women treat it like glass.'
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It isn't for the moment you are struck that you need courage, but for that long uphill climb back to sanity and faith and security.
Travelers are always discoverers, especially those who travel by air. There are no signposts in the sky to show a man has passed that way before. There are no channels marked. The flier breaks each second into new uncharted seas.
Don't wish me happiness - I don't expect to be happy it's gotten beyond that, somehow. Wish me courage and strength and a sense of humor - I will need them all.
I am most anxious to give my own children enough love and understanding so that they won't grow up with an aching void in them--like you and I and Harold and Martha. That can never be filled, and one goes around all one's life trying, trying to make up for what one didn't get that was one's birthright, asking the wrong people for it.
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