St. Paul introduced an entirely novel view of marriage, that it existed primarily to prevent the sin of fornication. It is just as if one were to maintain that the sole reason for baking bread is to prevent people from stealing cake.
Men have physical needs, and they have emotions. While physical needs are unsatisfied, they take first place; but when they are satisfied, emotions unconnected with them become important in deciding whether a man is to be happy or unhappy.
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What this quote means
Physical needs are primary until met, after which emotions significantly influence happiness.
In this quote, Bertrand Russell highlights the intertwined relationship between physical needs and emotional well-being. He suggests that when basic physical requirements are not met, they dominate a person's focus; however, once these needs are fulfilled, emotional matters become crucial in determining a person's overall happiness. This indicates that while survival is essential, the deeper aspects of our emotional lives subsequently play a significant role in our contentment.
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Example use cases
In a speech about mental health, this quote can illustrate the importance of addressing both physical and emotional needs.
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