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I forget who it was that recommended men for their soul's good to do each day two things they disliked: it was a wise man, and it is a precept that I have followed scrupulously; for every day I have got up and I have gone to bed.
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What this quote means
The quote suggests that we should face discomfort daily for personal growth.
In this quote, W. Somerset Maugham reflects on the advice of a wise man who encouraged individuals to engage in actions they find burdensome or unpleasant for the betterment of their souls. Maugham admits to following this precept diligently, implying that overcoming daily challenges, even minor ones, contributes to a richer and more fulfilling life. This philosophy emphasizes the importance of discipline and the potential for personal development through embracing discomfort.
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Example use cases
In a speech about personal development, one might reference this quote to inspire others to confront their fears.
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