To forgive is not to forget. The merit lies in loving in spite of the vivid knowledge that one that must be loved is not a friend. There is not merit in loving an enemy when you forget him for a friend.
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That which looks for mercy from an opponent is not non-violence.
Interpretation
What this quote means
True non-violence comes from strength, not desperation for mercy.
In this quote, Mahatma Gandhi emphasizes that seeking mercy from an opponent is a sign of weakness rather than the embodiment of true non-violence. Non-violence should stem from a position of strength and moral conviction, rather than from a place of fear or dependence on the goodwill of others; true strength lies in the ability to remain steadfast in one's beliefs without resorting to violence or coercion.
Themes
Non-ViolenceStrengthMercyOpponentPhilosophy
In practice
Example use cases
During a debate about conflict resolution, one might quote Gandhi to emphasize the need for strength in negotiations.
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