Nature smiles at the union of freedom and equality in our utopias. For freedom and equality are sworn and everlasting enemies, and when one prevails the other dies.
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If you wish to be loved, be modest; if you wish to be admired, be proud; if you wish both, combine external modesty with internal pride.
Interpretation
What this quote means
To be truly loved and admired, balance humility with a sense of self-worth.
In this quote, Will Durant highlights the importance of balancing modesty and pride when it comes to being both loved and admired. He suggests that by embracing external modesty while maintaining internal pride, a person can cultivate deeper, more genuine connections with others while also earning their admiration.
Themes
LoveModestyPrideAdmirationBalance
In practice
Example use cases
During a speech about personal development, you could use this quote to encourage the audience to embrace both humility and confidence.
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