Love, whether newly born, or aroused from a deathlike slumber, must always create sunshine, filling the heart so full of radiance, this it overflows upon the outward world.
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I love my mother, but there has been, ever since my boyhood, a sort of coldness of intercourse between us, such as is apt to come between people of strong feelings.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote expresses a complex relationship between the speaker and their mother, characterized by love but also emotional distance.
Nathaniel Hawthorne reflects on the relationship with his mother, acknowledging a deep love for her while also recognizing a persistent emotional distance that has existed since his childhood. This 'coldness of intercourse' suggests that intense feelings can sometimes complicate familial connections, leading to a relationship that is both affectionate and estranged.
Themes
MotherLoveRelationshipEmotional DistanceFamily
In practice
Example use cases
This quote can be referenced during a discussion about the emotional complexities of parent-child relationships.
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