[Women] tend to collect more pieces of data when they think, put them into more complex patterns, see more options and outcomes. They tend to be contextual, holistic thinkers.
Helen FisherRead
Mothers really were not built to raise babies not only by themselves, but with only a partner. For millions of years, a woman had much more than just her husband to help rear her young... This whole idea of 'it takes a village to raise a child' is exactly how we're supposed to live.
Interpretation
The quote emphasizes the importance of community support in raising children.
Helen Fisher's quote highlights that motherhood traditionally involved a network of support beyond just a partner, stressing that communal involvement is essential in nurturing children. The phrase 'it takes a village to raise a child' encapsulates the idea that a wider community plays a critical role in child-rearing, suggesting that individual parenting is often insufficient and that collective efforts foster better development.
In practice
During a parenting workshop to discuss the importance of community support.
[Women] tend to collect more pieces of data when they think, put them into more complex patterns, see more options and outcomes. They tend to be contextual, holistic thinkers.
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There is nothing like a newborn baby to renew your spirit - and to buttress your resolve to make the world a better place.
I wonder if other mothers feel a tug at their insides, watching their children grow up into the people they themselves wanted so badly to be.
I'm not the only one; most people's mothers are the most influential person in their life. But my mother survived the camps, and she was very strong. She made me strong, but she wanted me to be strong. That's more important.
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