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Some mothers in today's world feel "cumbered" by home duties and are thus attracted by other more "romantic" challenges. Such women could make the same error of perspective that Martha made. The woman, for instance, who deserts the cradle in order to help defend civilization against the barbarians may well later meet, among the barbarians, her own neglected child.
Neal A. Maxwell
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Interpretation

What this quote means

The quote highlights the struggle of mothers balancing home duties with outside challenges and warns of the potential neglect of their children's needs.

Neal A. Maxwell's quote reflects on the dilemma faced by some mothers who, feeling overwhelmed by domestic responsibilities, seek fulfillment in external pursuits. He cautions that in their pursuit of more 'romantic' or challenging roles outside the home, they may inadvertently neglect their primary role as caregivers, leading to painful realizations about their own children later in life. The metaphor of meeting a neglected child among the 'barbarians' serves as a stark reminder of the consequences of misplaced priorities.

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In practice

Example use cases

This quote could be shared during a Mother's Day speech to highlight the sacrifices mothers make.

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