That is the motto women should constantly repeat over and over again. 'Good for her! Not for me.'
Interpretation
Women should support each other's successes without feeling threatened by them.
This quote emphasizes the importance of women uplifting one another and celebrating each other's achievements. By adopting the mindset of 'Good for her! Not for me,' women can appreciate the successes of others without comparing themselves unfavorably, creating a culture of support and solidarity rather than competition.
In practice
In a women's seminar discussing empowerment and growth.
Be easy on yourself. Have fun. Only hang around people that are positive and make you feel good. Anybody who doesn't make you feel good, kick them to the curb. And the earlier you start in your life the better. The minute anybody makes you feel weird and non-included or not supported, you know, either beat it or tell them to beat it.
Anybody who doesn't make you feel good, kick them to the curb. And the earlier you start in your life, the better.
Open-faced sandwiches take risks and live big and smile with all their teeth. These are the people I want to be around.
You become more attractive when you love yourself. You ATTRACT the right things when you have a sense of who you are.
We don't want to be afraid to make a choice because we're afraid to make a mistake because most decisions aren't final. Feelings change all the time. You can always change your mind and taking risks and making choices is what makes life so exciting because we never know what's going to happen. Every day something new comes our way.
Itβs very hard to have ideas. Itβs very hard to put yourself out there, itβs very hard to be vulnerable, but those people who do that are the dreamers, the thinkers and the creators. They are the magic people of the world.
When the mind sees itself in the mirror of relationship, from that perception there is self-knowledge.
It would be rare to find a woman who hadn't endured some kind of ridicule for stepping out of line. When the market dictates that a woman's value is primarily attached to her looks and deferential behaviour, it's the threat of sexually degrading insults that help to keep her in check.
Many married women who have deliberately spurned the "hour" of childbearing are unhappy and frustrated. They never discovered the joys of marriage because they refused to surrender to the obligation of their state. In saving themselves, they lost themselves!
A mother takes twenty years to make a man of her boy, and another woman makes a fool of him in twenty minutes.
I don't think it's necessarily healthy to go into relationships as a needy person. Better to go in with a full deck.
However good or bad you feel about your relationship, the person you are with at this moment is the "right" person, because he or she is the mirror of who you are inside.
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