It is paradoxical that many educators and parents still differentiate between a time for learning and a time for play without seeing the vital connection between them.
Leo BuscagliaRead
I have too much respect for people to try to control them. But they are estranged from love, afraid to reach out and touch one another. We're afraid to appear sentimental or speak in platitudes because people will say, 'What a jerk!' It takes courage in our culture to be a lover.
Interpretation
The quote emphasizes the importance of love and connection while recognizing the societal fear of vulnerability.
Leo Buscaglia highlights a societal paradox where individuals, despite longing for deep connections and love, are often afraid to express their feelings for fear of judgment. This fear can lead to estrangement from genuine relationships, suggesting that it takes courage to openly embrace love in a culture that often discourages emotional openness.
In practice
This quote can be shared during a talk on emotional intelligence and love in relationships.
It is paradoxical that many educators and parents still differentiate between a time for learning and a time for play without seeing the vital connection between them.
Life is a great and wondrous mystery, and the only thing we know that we have for sure is what is right here right now. Don't miss it.
Only when we give joyfully, without hesitation or thought of gain, can we truly know what love means.
Life lived for tomorrow will always be just a day away from being realized.
Don't spend your precious time asking "Why isn't the world a better place?" It will only be time wasted. The question to ask is "How can I make it better?" To that there is an answer.
To love others you must first love yourself.
The more time went by, the more something just happened, an Oh my god - I want to love someone freely and walk down the street and hold my girlfriend's hand.
Come not, when I am dead, To drop thy foolish tears upon my grave, To trample round my fallen head, And vex the unhappy dust thou wouldst not save. There let the wind sweep and the plover cry; But thou, go by. Child, if it were thine error or thy crime I care no longer, being all unblest; Wed whom thou wilt, but I am sick of Time, And I desire to rest. Pass on, weak heart, and leave me where I lie: Go by, go by.
The best way to know God is to love many things.
The life that goes out in love to all life is the life that is full, and rich, and continually expanding in beauty and in power.
Eroticism is like a dance: one always leads the other.
You don't have to prove to me you're beautiful to strangers, I've got loving eyes of my own.
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