We must never expect discretion in first love: it is accompanied by such excessive joy that unless the joy is allowed to overflow, it will choke you.
Alexandre DumasRead
So much the worse for those who fear wine, for it is because they have some bad thoughts which they are afraid the liquor will extract from their hearts.
Interpretation
Fear of wine reflects deeper fears about oneself and one's hidden thoughts.
This quote by Alexandre Dumas suggests that those who are afraid of consuming wine may be struggling with inner turmoil or negative thoughts that they believe will be exposed or amplified by alcohol. The implication is that the true problem lies not in the wine itself but in the unresolved issues within the individual, hinting at the complex relationship between substances and our inner psyche.
In practice
A discussion on the psychological effects of alcohol in a seminar on mental health.
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If you turn the imagination loose like a hunting dog, it will often return with the bird in its mouth.
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