As honour, love, obedience, troops of friends, / I must not look to have; but, in their stead, / Curses, not loud but deep, mouth-honour, breath, / Which the poor heart would fain deny, and dare not" (5.3.25-28).
William ShakespeareRead
I must be cruel only to be kind; Thus bad begins, and worse remains behind.
Interpretation
Sometimes, showing tough love or being harsh can ultimately lead to positive outcomes.
This quote by Shakespeare suggests that in certain situations, being unkind or harsh is necessary for the greater good. It emphasizes that while immediate actions may seem cruel, they can be motivated by a desire to help others in the long run, and it's essential to understand that some 'bad' actions might be the precursor to improvement or healing.
In practice
This quote can be shared during a discussion about parenting techniques.
As honour, love, obedience, troops of friends, / I must not look to have; but, in their stead, / Curses, not loud but deep, mouth-honour, breath, / Which the poor heart would fain deny, and dare not" (5.3.25-28).
Love bears it out even to the edge of doom.
Good company, good wine, good welcome, can make good people.
Absence doth sharpen love, presence strengthens it; the one brings fuel, the other blows it till it burns clear.
Lord, Lord, how this world is given to lying!
Give it an understanding, but no tongue.
Love is composed of a single soul inhabiting two bodies.
Always tell her she is beautiful, especially if she is not.
Let us also love our neighbors as ourselves. Let us have charity and humility. Let us give alms because these cleanse our souls from the stains of sin. Men lose all the material things they leave behind them in this world, but they carry with them the reward of their charity and the alms they give. For these they will receive from the Lord the reward and recompense they deserve.
Just so you know, there's a space that only you can fill. Just so you know, I loved you then, I guess I always will.
He, full of bashfulness and truth, loved much, hoped little, and desired naught.
It is when we come to the Lord in our nothingness, our powerlessness and our helplessness that He then enables us to love in a way which, without Him, would be absolutely impossible.
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