You will become way less concerned with what other people think of you when you realize how seldom they do.
David Foster WallaceRead
Not that that mystical stuff's necessarily true: The only thing that's capital-T true is that you get to decide how you're going to try to see it.
Interpretation
We have the power to choose our perspective on life, regardless of external truths.
David Foster Wallace emphasizes the importance of personal perspective in interpreting the world around us. He suggests that while there may be a reality that exists independently, our perception of it is shaped by our choices and attitudes, highlighting the subjective nature of truth and experience.
In practice
In a motivational speech about overcoming adversity, one could quote this to emphasize the power of perspective.
You will become way less concerned with what other people think of you when you realize how seldom they do.
Everything in my own immediate experience supports my deep belief that I am the absolute center of the universe, the realest, most vivid and important person in existence.
It seems important to find ways of reminding ourselves that most 'familiarity' is meditated and delusive.
Under fun's new administration, writing fiction becomes a way to go deep inside yourself and illuminate precisely the stuff you don't want to see or let anyone else see, and this stuff usually turns out (paradoxically) to be precisely the stuff all writers and readers share and respond to, feel.
Acceptance is usually more a matter of fatigue than anything else.
Bliss - a-second-by-second joy and gratitude at the gift of being alive, conscious - lies on the other side of crushing, crushing boredom. Pay close attention to the most tedious thing you can find (Tax Returns, Televised Golf) and, in waves, a boredom like youβve never known will wash over you and just about kill you. Ride these out, and itβs like stepping from black and white into color. Like water after days in the desert. Instant bliss in every atom.
Every thought is a cause & every condition is an effect. Change your thoughts & you change your destiny.
Neither seek nor avoid, take what comes.
The poker player learns that sometimes both science and common sense are wrong; that the bumblebee can fly; that, perhaps, one should never trust an expert; that there are more things in Heaven and Earth than are dreamt of by those with an academic bent.
Max lifted his head, with great sorrow and great astonishment. 'There were stars,' He said. 'They burned my eyes.β ...from a Himmel street window, he wrote, the stars set fire to my eyes.
Whoever now makes himself bigger, freer and more human in his own existence, is doing his part toward peace, β as yet it must be worked at in an inward direction, not until a few have it all big and ready within them can it let itself be brought into the world.
All wars are civil wars because all men are brothers... Each one owes infinitely more to the human race than to the particular country in which he was born.
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