I am doomed to an eternity of compulsive work. No set goal achieved satisfies. Success only breeds a new goal. The golden apple devoured has seeds. It is endless.
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If you've never been hated by your child, you've never been a parent.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Parenting involves making difficult decisions that may not always be appreciated by children.
This quote by Bette Davis highlights the complex and often challenging nature of parenting. It suggests that a parent must sometimes enforce rules or boundaries that may lead to temporary feelings of resentment or hatred from their child, pointing to the deep emotional involvement and sacrifices that come with raising a child. To be a parent often means to prioritize long-term well-being over immediate acceptance or affection, implying that experiencing hatred from your child can be an indication of effective parenting.
Themes
ParentingLoveSacrificeChildrenEmotions
In practice
Example use cases
Sharing this quote during a parenting seminar to discuss the challenges of raising children.
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