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I never had to look for confidence because I just wore what I wanted to wear. I would never wear anything to offend my husband or my mother, but outside of that, I always figured, I hope I'm not a rebel, and I hope everybody liked it. And if they didn't like it, it really was not going to disturb me because it was their problem, not mine.
Iris Apfel
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Interpretation

What this quote means

Confidence comes from self-expression, not external validation.

Iris Apfel's quote emphasizes the importance of wearing what makes you happy and comfortable without being excessively concerned about others' opinions. It highlights the idea that true confidence is rooted in self-acceptance and personal style, rather than conforming to societal expectations or seeking approval from others.

Themes

ConfidenceSelf-ExpressionStyleIndividualitySelf-Acceptance

In practice

Example use cases

During a fashion show, I shared Iris Apfel's quote to inspire the audience to embrace their personal style.

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