Personal relations are the important thing for ever and ever, and not this outer life of telegrams and anger.
E. M. ForsterRead
I never could get on with representative individuals but people who existed on their own account and with whom it might therefore be possible to be friends.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote expresses a preference for authentic connections over superficial relationships based on representation.
E. M. Forster emphasizes the importance of genuine friendship that arises from interacting with individuals who are true to themselves rather than those who merely act as representatives or facades. He suggests that real connections can only form when people are authentic and exist 'on their own account', allowing for deeper and more meaningful relationships.
Themes
FriendshipAuthenticityConnectionIndividualityRelationships
In practice
Example use cases
In a speech about building strong teams, one might quote Forster to highlight the importance of individual connections.
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