Death carries off a man busy picking flowers with an besotted mind, like a great flood does a sleeping village.
Gautama BuddhaRead
Hatred is never ended by hatred but by love.
Interpretation
Hatred can only be overcome through love, not by responding with more hatred.
This quote emphasizes that negative feelings like hatred can only be resolved by positive actions and sentiments, specifically love. Gautama Buddha suggests that retaliating with hatred only perpetuates a cycle of negativity, while approaching issues with love and compassion can lead to healing and resolution.
In practice
In a discussion about conflict resolution, this quote can be used to highlight the necessity of love over hate.
Death carries off a man busy picking flowers with an besotted mind, like a great flood does a sleeping village.
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The tongue like a sharp knife ... Kills without drawing blood.
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Anyway, I want to remember that love can happen. Because there is life after not having a life. I never expected love to happen. What was I expecting from life, then?
Maybe this is why Misty loved him. Loved you. Because you believed in her so much more than she did. You expected more from her than she did from herself.
There are lovers content with longing. Iβm not one of them.
Love, it seems to me, is that condition in which one is most contentedly oneself.
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