Not everyone will be happy when you begin to better yourself. Those who are for you will not just celebrate in your triumphs, but they will also pray with you through your tribulations.
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Nobody wants somebody who wants them for what they have or the position their in- you want somebody who wants you for you. In case it all goes crazy and it all turns to dust. I want somebody who loves me in the welfare line, eating gumbo, eating fish,black eyed peas and rice. I want somebody that loves me. God wants you to love him, not his cars, not his house, not his blessing- love him.
Interpretation
What this quote means
True love is based on genuine connection rather than material possessions or status.
In this quote, T. D. Jakes emphasizes the importance of seeking authentic love that remains steadfast regardless of external circumstances. He contrasts superficial love that is dependent on wealth or status with a deeper emotional bond that values the person for their true self, advocating for love that persists even in hardship or poverty.
Themes
LoveGenuineAuthenticityRelationshipsAcceptanceConnection
In practice
Example use cases
This quote can be used in a relationship counseling session to emphasize the importance of genuine love.
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