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The only normal people are the ones you don't know very well.
Alfred Adler
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Interpretation

What this quote means

Normality is subjective and often depends on our close relationships with others.

This quote by Alfred Adler suggests that what is considered 'normal' varies greatly depending on individual perspectives and familiarity with a person. The deeper we know someone, the more we uncover the complexities and quirks that define their behavior, which challenges the notion of a universal standard for normality.

Themes

NormalityPerceptionRelationshipsUnderstandingHumanity

In practice

Example use cases

A speaker addressing a group of psychology students might use this quote to illustrate the complexity of human behavior.

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