What was any art but a mould in which to imprison for a moment the shining elusive element which is life itself - life hurrying past us and running away, too strong to stop, too sweet to lose.
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The more observing ones may have seen, but discerning people are usually discreet and often kind, for we usually bleed a little before we begin to discern.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote emphasizes that true understanding comes with experience and often requires a degree of emotional sensitivity.
Willa Cather's quote reflects on the notion that while many people may notice the complexities of life, only those who have the ability to discern can fully appreciate the nuances within them. This discernment often comes at a cost, as it requires vulnerability and empathy, suggesting that to truly understand others, one must first endure their own struggles and pain.
Themes
ObservingDiscerningKindnessUnderstandingEmpathyExperience
In practice
Example use cases
In a discussion about emotional intelligence, one might reference this quote to highlight the importance of kindness and understanding in relationships.
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