Often, when there is a conflict between parent and child, at its very hub is an expectation that the child should be acting differently. Sometimes these expectations run counter what is known about children's growth. They stem from remembering oneself, but usually at a slightly older age.
It gives us more flexibility, so we can do more, but it also creates the expectation of the instant response. It can take away your sense of control … - Ellen Galinsky
It gives us more flexibility, so we can do more, but it also creates the expectation of the instant response. It can take away your sense of control …
- Ellen Galinsky
The colicky baby who becomes calm, the quiet infant who throws temper tantrums at two, the wild child at four who becomes seriousand studious at six … - Ellen Galinsky
The colicky baby who becomes calm, the quiet infant who throws temper tantrums at two, the wild child at four who becomes seriousand studious at six …
Parenthood brings profound pleasure and satisfactions--the unparalleled pleasure of caring so intensely for another human being, of watching growth, … - Ellen Galinsky
Parenthood brings profound pleasure and satisfactions--the unparalleled pleasure of caring so intensely for another human being, of watching growth, …
In a study that I just did, I found that it was older children, not younger children, who felt that they didn't have enough time with their parents. - Ellen Galinsky
In a study that I just did, I found that it was older children, not younger children, who felt that they didn't have enough time with their parents.
In families children tend to take on stock roles, as if there were hats hung up in some secret place, visible only to the children. Each succeeding c… - Ellen Galinsky
In families children tend to take on stock roles, as if there were hats hung up in some secret place, visible only to the children. Each succeeding c…
Understanding child development takes the emphasis away from the child's character--looking at the child as good or bad. The emphasis is put on behav… - Ellen Galinsky
Understanding child development takes the emphasis away from the child's character--looking at the child as good or bad. The emphasis is put on behav…
If you never allow your children to exceed what they can do, how are they ever going to manage adult life - where a lot of it is managing more than y… - Ellen Galinsky
If you never allow your children to exceed what they can do, how are they ever going to manage adult life - where a lot of it is managing more than y…
There is nothing intrinsically better about a child who happily bounces off to school the first day and a child who is wary, watchful, and takes a lo… - Ellen Galinsky
There is nothing intrinsically better about a child who happily bounces off to school the first day and a child who is wary, watchful, and takes a lo…
Cultural expectations shade and color the images that parents-to-be form. The baby product ads, showing a woman serenely holding her child, looking b… - Ellen Galinsky
Cultural expectations shade and color the images that parents-to-be form. The baby product ads, showing a woman serenely holding her child, looking b…
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