Never promise more than you can perform.
Publilius SyrusRead
I often regret that I have spoken; never that I have been silent.
Interpretation
This quote highlights the value of silence over the potential regret of speaking without thought.
Publilius Syrus emphasizes the importance of choosing words carefully and reflects on the idea that people often feel regret after speaking, especially if their words were unwise or hurtful. In contrast, remaining silent is portrayed as a safer choice, suggesting that sometimes it is better to listen or refrain from unnecessary comment than to risk making a mistake with one's speech.
In practice
This quote can be shared in a discussion about communication skills in workshops.
Never promise more than you can perform.
Pain forces even the innocent to lie.
In a heated argument we are apt to lose sight of the truth.
Admonish your friends privately, but praise them openly.
What a tragedy is help where it harms what it supports!
The miser is as much in want of what he has as of what he has not.
No man can climb out beyond the limitations of his own character.
Maybe as times get worse we get better. Our pain makes us feel other people's too; our fear lets us practice valor; we are tense, and tender as well. And among the things we can no longer afford are things we never really wanted anyway.
Men who are orthodox when they are young are in danger of being middle-aged all their lives.
Words are singularly the most powerful force available to humanity. We can choose to use this force constructively with words of encouragement, or destructively using words of despair. Words have energy and power with the ability to help, to heal, to hinder, to hurt, to harm, to humiliate and to humble.
It's not when you realize that nothing can help you β religion, pride, anything β it's when you realize that you don't need any aid.
Time is generally the best doctor.
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