Efforts to bar transgender people from restrooms are nothing more than an attempt to codify discrimination before our country advances any further on transgender equality.
Sarah McbrideRead
Too often, when transgender people die, family members or funeral homes will end up dressing a body of a transgender person in the garments of the gender that they were assigned at birth instead of their gender identity. They're often dead-named and misgendered.
Interpretation
This quote highlights the importance of respecting an individual's gender identity, even in death.
Sarah McBride's quote addresses the painful reality faced by many transgender individuals, where familial and societal norms can lead to their identities being disregarded even after their passing. She emphasizes the need for respect and recognition of a person's true gender identity, advocating for dignity in how transgender individuals are honored and remembered.
In practice
This quote can be used in a speech about LGBTQ+ rights at a pride event.
Efforts to bar transgender people from restrooms are nothing more than an attempt to codify discrimination before our country advances any further on transgender equality.
Access to public facilities like bathrooms is important for transgender people. But the fight for transgender rights does not begin and end at the bathroom door.
We can celebrate the speed at which LGBT equality has progressed, but we also have to acknowledge that it wasn't fast enough, because too many people didn't get to experience it. We can never be too impatient.
For me, having a gender identity that was different from my sex assigned at birth and that wasn't seen by society felt like a constant feeling of homesickness - that unwavering ache in the pit of my stomach.
My whiteness, economic privilege, able-bodied privilege, family support, and so many other factors shield me from some of the worst possible consequences - often fatal ones - that result from the toxic combination of misogyny, racism, and anti-trans sentiment.
I've always been Sarah. My gender identity has always existed. I've always been a woman. Gay people aren't straight before they come out as gay, and transgender people are who they are before they come out and transition.
I know that sometimes people fake on each other out of genuine motives to hold onto the object of their tenderest feelings. They see themselves as so inadequate that they feel forced to wear a mask in order to continuously impress the other. I do not want to "hold" you, I want you to "stay" out of your own need for me.
Company, villainous company, hath been the spoil of me.
But maybe, underneath, she loves him too much. Maybe it's her excessive love that pushes him away.
Now more than ever, I have learned that, when people die, they truly do live throughout those who love them.
I pray with my whole soul that the divide-and-conquerers among us will not triumph over us. We need each other in this world so desperately.
I'm not lonely, and I think that has a lot to do with what's on my bedside table rather than what's in my bed.
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