Speak the truth, do not yield to anger; give, if thou art asked for little; by these three steps thou wilt go near the gods.
ConfuciusRead
If what one has to say is not better than silence, then one should keep silent.
Interpretation
If your words do not contribute positively, it's better to remain silent.
This quote by Confucius emphasizes the importance of thoughtful communication. It suggests that silence can often be more valuable than meaningless or hurtful speech, encouraging individuals to speak only when they have something constructive to contribute.
In practice
In a group discussion, when someone expresses a controversial opinion, it might be wise to refer to this quote to emphasize the value of silence.
Speak the truth, do not yield to anger; give, if thou art asked for little; by these three steps thou wilt go near the gods.
Earnest in practicing the ordinary virtues, and careful in speaking about them, if, in his practice, he has anything defective, the superior man dares not but exert himself; and if, in his words, he has any excess, he dares not allow himself such license.
When you see a good person, think of becoming like her/him. When you see someone not so good, reflect on your own weak points.
Never give a sword to a man who can't dance.
The superior man is distressed by the limitations of his ability; he is not distressed by the fact that men do not recognize the ability that he has.
Success depends upon previous preparation, and without such preparation there is sure to be failure.
When the enemy's envoy's speak in humble terms, but continues his preparations, he will advance. When their language is deceptive but the enemy pretentiously advances, he will retreat. When the envoys speak in apologetic terms, he wishes a respite. When without a previous understanding the enemy asks for a truce, he is plotting. When the enemy sees an advantage but does not advance to seize it, he is fatigued.
Any formal attack on ignorance is bound to fail because the masses are always ready to defend their most precious possession - their ignorance.
But he that sows lies in the end shall not lack of a harvest, and soon he may rest from toil indeed, while others reap and sow in his stead.
What you do thunders above your head so loudly, I cannot hear the words you speak.
I can choose either to be a victim of the world or an adventurer in search of treasure. It's all a question of how I view my life.
Just sick enough to be totally confident
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