We are one in Christ; let us be friends with one another; but let us never be friends with one another’s error. If I be wrong, rebuke me sternly; I can bear it, and bear it cheerfully; and if ye be wrong, expect the like measure from me, and neither peace nor parley with your mistakes.
Interpretation
True friendship involves honesty and correction, not just acceptance of faults.
This quote by Charles Spurgeon emphasizes the importance of holding one another accountable within friendships, especially in a spiritual context. It advocates for a balance where love and camaraderie exist alongside a commitment to truth, urging friends to support each other's growth by addressing mistakes rather than ignoring them for the sake of harmony.
In practice
During a community meeting discussing personal growth, this quote can illustrate the importance of honest feedback among friends.
Amusement should be used to do us good “like a medicine”: it must never be used as the food of the man...Many have had all holy thoughts and gracious resolutions stamped out by perpetual trifling. Pleasure so called is the murderer of thought. This is the age of excessive amusement: everybody craves for it, like a babe for its rattle.
When you see no present advantage, walk by faith and not by sight. Do God the honor to trust Him when it comes to matters of loss for the sake of principle.
It is far easier to fight with sin in public than to pray against it in private.
You will never glory in God till first of all God has killed your glorying in yourself.
After faith comes repentance, or, rather, repentance is faith's twin brother and is born at the same time.
["All the paths of the Lord are mercy and truth unto such as keep his covenant."] The original Hebrew word that has been translated "paths" means "well-worn roads' or "wheel tracks," such ruts as wagons make when they go down our green roads in wet weather and sink in up to the axles. God's ways are at times like heavy wagon tracks that cut deep into our souls, yet all of them are merciful.
Only friendliness produces friendship. And we must look far deeper into the soul of man for the thing that produces friendliness.
When I recollect the treasure of friendship that has been bestowed upon me I withdraw all charges against life. If much has been denied me, much, very much has been given. So long as the memory of certain beloved friends lives in my heart I shall say that life is good.
And then there are my friends, and they have their own lives. While they like to talk everything through, to analyze and hypothesize, what I really need, what I'm really looking for, is not something I can articulate. It's nonverbal: I need love. I need the thing that happens when your brain shuts off and your heart turns on. And I know it's around me somewhere, but I just can't feel it.
The longer we live the more we think and the higher the value we put on friendship and tenderness towards parents and friends.
There is no surer foundation for a beautiful friendship than a mutual taste in literature.
Friendship is the inexpressible comfort of feeling safe with a person, having neither to weigh thoughts nor measure words.
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