Normal, in our house, is like a blanket too short for a bed--sometimes it covers you just fine, and other times it leaves you cold and shaking; and worst of all, you never know which of the two it's going to be.
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No one ever asks a kid for her opinion, but it seems to me that growing up means you stop hoping for the best, and start expecting the worst.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Growing up often leads to a loss of hope and an increase in pessimism.
In this quote, Jodi Picoult reflects on the bittersweet transition from childhood to adulthood, highlighting how the innocence of youth is replaced by the often harsh realities of life. While children tend to hold onto hope and optimistic expectations, adulthood can bring a more cynical outlook, where individuals begin to prepare for disappointment rather than dream of possibilities.
Themes
Growing UpHopePessimismLifeChildhood
In practice
Example use cases
In a discussion about the changes that come with age, this quote could illustrate the shift in mindset.
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