The comic spirit is given to us in order that we may analyze, weigh, and clarify things in us which nettle us, or which we are outgrowing, or trying to reshape
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There is one regard in which bullies show real perception when compared with their victims; it is their silent good-natured pleasure of the moment.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Bullies may find momentary joy in their actions, which reflects a deeper understanding compared to their victims.
This quote by Thornton Wilder highlights the paradoxical nature of bullying, suggesting that while bullies inflict pain on their victims, they occasionally derive a fleeting sense of pleasure from their actions. This perception points to a contrast between the bullying behavior and the emotional suffering of the victim, indicating that bullies possess a certain awareness of their impact on others, even if it manifests as enjoyment in the moment.
Themes
BullyingPerceptionPleasureVictimPsychology
In practice
Example use cases
Discussing the dynamics of power in a leadership seminar.
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