There, by the starlit fences The wanderer halts and hears My soul that lingers sighing About the glimmering weirs.
A. E. HousmanRead
When I was one-and-twenty I heard a wise man say, `Give crowns and pounds and guineas But not your heart away; Give pearls away and rubies But keep your fancy free.' But I was one-and-twenty No use to talk to me. When I was one-and-twenty I heard him say again, `The heart out of the bosom Was never given in vain; 'Tis paid with sighs a plenty And sold for endless rue.' And I am two-and-twenty And oh, 'tis true, 'tis true.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote warns against giving your heart away too easily, highlighting the emotional cost of love.
In this reflective poem, A. E. Housman recounts the wise advice he received about the importance of guarding one's heart when it comes to love and relationships. At the age of twenty-one, he is advised to remain emotionally free and not give away his affections too readily, as doing so can lead to sorrow and regret. The speaker ultimately comes to understand the wisdom in this advice, recognizing the emotional price that comes with love.
Themes
LoveHeartEmotionWisdomAdvice
In practice
Example use cases
In a wedding speech, one might say, 'As the wise poet once wrote, 'Give your heart wisely.'
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