As honour, love, obedience, troops of friends, / I must not look to have; but, in their stead, / Curses, not loud but deep, mouth-honour, breath, / Which the poor heart would fain deny, and dare not" (5.3.25-28).
William ShakespeareRead
Can you nominate in order now the degrees of the lie? I will name you the degrees. The first, the Retort Courteous; the second, the Quip Modest; the third, the Reply Churlish; the fourth, the Reproof Valiant; the fifth; the Countercheck Quarrelsome; the sixth, the Lie with Circumstance; the seventh, the Lie Direct. All these you may avoid but the Lie Direct; and you may avoid that too, with an If. . . . Your If is the only peace-maker; much virtue in If.
Interpretation
The quote explores different levels of dishonesty and the power of possibility in truth-telling.
In this quote, Shakespeare categorizes various forms of lies, indicating a spectrum from polite retorts to outright deception. He emphasizes that while one can avoid many types of falsehoods, the most straightforward lie can sometimes be circumvented through the conditional nature of 'If', which introduces nuance and potential for reconciliation. This reflects on the complexity of human communication and the role of honesty in relationships.
In practice
In a debate about the importance of honesty in leadership.
As honour, love, obedience, troops of friends, / I must not look to have; but, in their stead, / Curses, not loud but deep, mouth-honour, breath, / Which the poor heart would fain deny, and dare not" (5.3.25-28).
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Lord, Lord, how this world is given to lying!
Give it an understanding, but no tongue.
Is there no way out of the mind?
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