When we see that we are not made up by the other's experience, we then have the capacity not to take responsibility for what is now genuinely and for the first time not ours. And as a result, we can get just as close to the other's experience (even the other's experience of how dissapointing, enraging, or disapprovable we are!) without any need to react defensively to it or be guiltily compliant with it.
Learning is the making of meaning. - Robert Kegan
Learning is the making of meaning.
- Robert Kegan
What we mean by maturity in people's thinking is not a matter of how smart they are, but it is a matter of the order of consciousness in which they e… - Robert Kegan
What we mean by maturity in people's thinking is not a matter of how smart they are, but it is a matter of the order of consciousness in which they e…
Motion is the context of living. We find meaning my and in our doing. - Robert Kegan
Motion is the context of living. We find meaning my and in our doing.
When we see that we are not made up by the other's experience, we then have the capacity not to take responsibility for what is now genuinely and for… - Robert Kegan
When we see that we are not made up by the other's experience, we then have the capacity not to take responsibility for what is now genuinely and for…
It is not change that causes anxiety; it is the feeling that we are without defenses in the presence of what we see as danger that causes anxiety. - Robert Kegan
It is not change that causes anxiety; it is the feeling that we are without defenses in the presence of what we see as danger that causes anxiety.
That 'change makes us uncomfortable' is now one of the most widely promoted, widely accepted, and under-considered half-truths around. [I]t is not ch… - Robert Kegan
That 'change makes us uncomfortable' is now one of the most widely promoted, widely accepted, and under-considered half-truths around. [I]t is not ch…
Change does not fail to occur because of insincerity. The heart patient is not insincere about his wish to keep living, even as he reaches for anothe… - Robert Kegan
Change does not fail to occur because of insincerity. The heart patient is not insincere about his wish to keep living, even as he reaches for anothe…
Successfully functioning in a society with diverse values, traditions and lifestyles requires us to have a relationship to our own reactions rather t… - Robert Kegan
Successfully functioning in a society with diverse values, traditions and lifestyles requires us to have a relationship to our own reactions rather t…
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