I have often wondered how it is that every man loves himself more than all the rest of men, but yet sets less value on his own opinions of himself than on the opinions of others.
Are you distracted by outward cares? Then allow yourself a space of quiet wherein you can add to your knowledge of the Good and learn to curb your restlessness. Nowhere can a man find a quieter or more untroubled retreat than in his own soul. Avail yourself often, then, of this retirement, and so continually renew yourself.
Interpretation
What this quote means
This quote emphasizes the importance of introspection and finding inner peace to enhance knowledge and self-control.
In this quote, Marcus Aurelius highlights the necessity of retreating into oneself to escape external distractions and restlessness. He suggests that true tranquility and the opportunity for personal growth lie within our own souls, and that by taking the time for self-reflection, we can continuously renew and improve ourselves. This message encourages individuals to carve out moments of stillness in their lives to cultivate wisdom and inner serenity.
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In practice
Example use cases
During a wellness retreat, someone could share this quote to inspire participants to reflect inwardly.
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