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Pain is a relatively objective, physical phenomenon; suffering is our psychological resistance to what happens. Events may create physical pain, but they do not in themselves create suffering. Resistance creates suffering. Stress happens when your mind resists what is... The only problem in your life is your mind's resistance to life as it unfolds.
Dan Millman
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Interpretation

What this quote means

Pain is a physical experience, while suffering is the mental resistance to that pain and the events of life.

This quote by Dan Millman highlights the distinction between pain and suffering, suggesting that while physical pain is an inevitable part of life, suffering is a mental state that arises from our resistance to circumstances. By implying that our mind's resistance leads to unnecessary stress and unhappiness, it encourages acceptance of life's events as they come, rather than fighting against them.

Themes

PainSufferingResistanceMindAcceptanceStress

In practice

Example use cases

In a motivational speech about coping with hardship, emphasizing the importance of mental resilience.

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